The Anatomy of a Divorce

Strategic Early Action Plan for Divorce Clients: Comprehensive Legal and Personal Preparation – Part 1

A divorce requires a strategic, multifaceted approach balancing legal, financial, emotional, and personal considerations. Comprehensive preparation and professional guidance are essential for successfully navigating this complex transition. Over the course of the next few months, I will provide you with checklists of things to do, things not to do, and things to consider, to help you navigate the early, mid, and late stages of a divorce proceeding.

  1. Legal Documentation and Financial Protection Immediate Priority Actions:
  • Secure and organize all critical financial documents.
  • Gather comprehensive financial records including:
    • Bank statements
    • Tax returns
    • Investment account information
    • Property deed documents
    • Retirement account statements
  • Create a detailed inventory of marital and personal assets.
  • Consider setting up separate bank accounts.
  • Protect personal credit by monitoring credit reports.
  • Consult with an attorney about temporary financial arrangements.

2. Legal Strategy Development Critical Legal Considerations:

  • Schedule a comprehensive first consultation with a divorce attorney
  • Discuss potential custody arrangements if children are involved.
  • Understand the legal and procedural requirements.
  • Develop clear communication protocols with legal representation.
  • Begin documenting all communication with the spouse.
  • Figure out temporary living arrangements.
  • Establish clear boundaries for personal and shared communications.

I hope this first set of tips helps to provide an action plan as you start this new journey.